80/20 RELATIONSHIPS
CREATING "THE BONUS" MOST EFFECTIVELY
AS IN THE REST OF HIS/HER LIFE...
The 80/20 Person does in relationships what he does in the rest of his life: he invests his time marvelously, in terms of results.
THE 80/20 PERSON DOES THIS:
Only associates where there is a high payoff, departing from all negative or low payoff relationships - and is
very, very strict about this.
Is self-sufficient, not needing approval, not wasting time on low or no payoff items.
Delivers the vital 20% value for the other person in the relationship.
Spends effort on control only where there is a worthwhile result and good probability of that result; wastes no
time on control overall.
Learns what matters most in relationship.
Discovers what key people want and then does it.
Only gives where there is sufficient or maximum payoff for him/herself, and in doing so actually accomplishes more good than the less discriminat giver - he/she is not influences by guilt or moral make-wrongs per se.
Is kind and respectful to all and does not use inappropriate or harmful force.
